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This is the crux of it, and lines up with what I was saying: > Nowadays, except within specialized philosophical usages, the usage of the term ad hominem signifies a straight attack at the character and ethos of a person, in an attempt to refute their argument.
That doesn’t make the correct usage in this context wrong, or more importantly prevent what you said from both being a logical fallacy and simply rude. I personally would have apologized a while ago, but you do you.
Well, it does if I'm being a bit snarky, and not using that snark as a way of dismissing a claim. I'm saying there is no justification for the claim, and that it's taken far more words to claim the thing than it would be to supply a simple disproving example.
> or more importantly prevent what you said from both being a logical fallacy
No, something being not ad hominem doesn't prevent it from being a logical fallacy, but that's not how reason works. You disprove. You don't say, "Well this criticism failed but that doesn't prove it's valid!"
> I personally would have apologized a while ago, but you do you.
But... this is also rude. More so than a little bit of snark.
Start again. What are you trying to achieve here?