Earlier quoted context omitted.
Say a bit more about the headspace
My wife has it, mainly she is unable to conceptualize that she is wrong and thus never learns from experience. For example she started a lawsuit against the neighbors, that she funnels tens of thousands of dollars toward because she thought the property line was further into their yard than it actually is. She recently told me we own the entire town and made some nonsensical statements to justify that belief. I'm goi…
Yep. That sounds familiar.
> She acts out in order to gain attention. From ruining the family finances like in the first example to engaging in affairs and luring men from the internet to appear at the house.
Yep.
> She has made false claims against me to the police.
Not exactly but in the neighborhood.
> Refuses to clean up after herself, leaving huge messes, while complaining about a single item I might leave out.
Mine was a hoarder. Otherwise, yep.
> She lies, a lot. She doesn't seem to understand that I don't trust her anymore after all the lies, to her that's in the past even if it was a few minutes ago.
...while she keenly remembers the smallest of slights from decades ago.
> I'm stuck due to my kid and family courts bias in favor of mothers. 14 more years.
By the time mine got thru a paragraph, the judge would be giving me that look. I know that because judges routinely gave that look. Criminal judges, that is.