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Re: Boston mayor announces residential conversion program for office buildings

#411

Post by bheadmaster » Sat, Jul 22, 2023, 10:13 AM UTC

SantalBlush wrote: post #410

bheadmaster wrote: post #409

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I don't recall any of our previous conversations, and 4 days is not a very long time on HN front page. Please try to see communication as sharing more than a battle. It doesn't matter who's right, what matters is to share knowledge and help each other converge to something resembling the truth. Life is much more beautiful from that perspective. Have a good day, too, but sincerely, not in a snarky way.

Well I expected you to deny it, but it's quite obvious, especially with how combative and upset you were in our previous exchange. But trying to carry on vendettas in other threads isn't healthy or productive, so I suggest you don't seek out other comments of mine to pick fights ;)

I'm sorry you feel that way, especially considering how much effort I put into writing a neutral and non-combative reply. It seems to me that you see hostility even when there isn't any.

Hope you find your peace one day.

Re: Boston mayor announces residential conversion program for office buildings

#412

Post by SantalBlush » Sat, Jul 22, 2023, 5:05 PM UTC

bheadmaster wrote: post #411

SantalBlush wrote: post #410

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Well I expected you to deny it, but it's quite obvious, especially with how combative and upset you were in our previous exchange. But trying to carry on vendettas in other threads isn't healthy or productive, so I suggest you don't seek out other comments of mine to pick fights ;)

I'm sorry you feel that way, especially considering how much effort I put into writing a neutral and non-combative reply. It seems to me that you see hostility even when there isn't any. Hope you find your peace one day.

I appreciate that you've softened your tone from your earlier hostile remarks.

But getting upset at a previous discussion and then looking up threads of mine to pretend to scold me isn't neutral, it's unhealthy.

This will be my last reply; I'd appreciate it if you don't stalk my comments to try and carry on a grudge. If you would like to get the last word, and try to carefully craft a response to make it appear that isn't what you were doing, you are more than welcome.

Re: Boston mayor announces residential conversion program for office buildings

#413

Post by bheadmaster » Sat, Jul 22, 2023, 8:20 PM UTC

SantalBlush wrote: post #412

bheadmaster wrote: post #411

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I'm sorry you feel that way, especially considering how much effort I put into writing a neutral and non-combative reply. It seems to me that you see hostility even when there isn't any. Hope you find your peace one day.

I appreciate that you've softened your tone from your earlier hostile remarks. But getting upset at a previous discussion and then looking up threads of mine to pretend to scold me isn't neutral, it's unhealthy. This will be my last reply; I'd appreciate it if you don't stalk my comments to try and carry on a grudge. If you would like to get the last word, and try to carefully craft a response to make it appear that…

You seem to be convinced that I'm stalking you for some reason, and you have crafted a reply that is supposed to make any and all of my words moot.

Regardless, I do not speak to make anything seem to anyone or to have the last word - I speak because I want to communicate. And I'd like to communicate to you that I am most certainly not stalking you. I don't appreciate being accused of it with only evidence being the fact that we had a conversation before, but I understand paranoia and the distrust of everyone it causes in the soul, which is the reason I'm spending my time typing this out in the first place.

Again, I hope you find your peace, or ask for help from appropriate people if you can't. Nothing more than that.