I turn my camera off on big calls and it helps a bunch, there's a process running in the back of my mind when it's on that is constantly screening what I am doing just incase it looks stupid on camera. It feels like being in a panopticon. You never know if someone is looking. It's very tiring. I don't have the same issue in person because you know when people are looking at you in person and there's heaps of context…
I want you and everyone else to know that sometimes on large zoom calls I will "pin" one person in the call and stare at them for multiple minutes in a row on fullscreen. I do this all the time.
Zoom fatigue unpacked
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Re: Zoom fatigue unpacked
#22Of course, the elephant in the room is that people need to stop having so many meetings. Those of us who have been working remotely for a decade or more never had this problem - we use async communications, quick one-off calls when needed, and really never spent all our time in meetings. But when everyone moved to remote work a few years ago, this culture of meetings all day came up... and it still confuses me. It is…
Re: Zoom fatigue unpacked
#23Of course, the elephant in the room is that people need to stop having so many meetings. Those of us who have been working remotely for a decade or more never had this problem - we use async communications, quick one-off calls when needed, and really never spent all our time in meetings. But when everyone moved to remote work a few years ago, this culture of meetings all day came up... and it still confuses me. It is…
if it can be summarized in 2-3 lines in an email, dont accept the meeting.
Re: Zoom fatigue unpacked
#24Of course, the elephant in the room is that people need to stop having so many meetings. Those of us who have been working remotely for a decade or more never had this problem - we use async communications, quick one-off calls when needed, and really never spent all our time in meetings. But when everyone moved to remote work a few years ago, this culture of meetings all day came up... and it still confuses me. It is…
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#25Earlier quoted context omitted.
The hard part is to start, but once you have done it, you feel better. Even a simple chore like cleaning will help. Going to the supermarket will not, since you can get quiet and focused on the physicality. Just walking outside will do it you have nothing to do.
Kids have recess. Why not adults too?
When adults have vacation, they are usually cared for by themselves, or have to care about the kids who are having their recess :)
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#26Earlier quoted context omitted.
The hard part is to start, but once you have done it, you feel better. Even a simple chore like cleaning will help. Going to the supermarket will not, since you can get quiet and focused on the physicality. Just walking outside will do it you have nothing to do.
Kids have recess. Why not adults too?
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#27I turn my camera off on big calls and it helps a bunch, there's a process running in the back of my mind when it's on that is constantly screening what I am doing just incase it looks stupid on camera. It feels like being in a panopticon. You never know if someone is looking. It's very tiring. I don't have the same issue in person because you know when people are looking at you in person and there's heaps of context…
I want you and everyone else to know that sometimes on large zoom calls I will "pin" one person in the call and stare at them for multiple minutes in a row on fullscreen. I do this all the time.
Re: Zoom fatigue unpacked
#28I guess I was doing some these things already and didnt know it. Standing desk locked in the up position for zoom marathon days. Stepping back from the screens and camera when there isnt any reason to have hands on kb/m. I'm a usual pacer when on the phone so I'm not sure if that's instinct or habit but it certainly helps. Scheduling is also not mentioned surprisingly, but leaving 5-15m buffer gaps between back to ba…
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#29This makes it more cognitively demanding to find the right moment to jump in, and if two people jump in at the same time, they have to resolve the conflict, which is slower than in-person.
This also tends to lead to a style of conversation where one person talks longer. It's a little like email vs. slack. The conversation is more synchronous.
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#30The whole mirror fatique thing is really interesting. I get enormous social anxiety on virtual calls and am constantly checking my mirror. I hate teams for that reason, i can't properly see what I am transmitting while Google meet is showing me Exactly what I'm sending in HD. I think I'll have to experiment with removing that and see if it reduces my anxiety
When it’s there, I can’t stop looking at it to ensure I look ok.
When it’s not there, I’m stressing because I don’t know how I look.