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Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#91
Some thoughts for you:

Leadership is a taught skill. Start learning.

If you want to get promoted, your current company has sent you a strong message... it is up to you to listen to it and understand it.

Personally, I've stayed on the technical side of the house, no regrets. As a Principal Software Engineer... you'd have to pay quite a bit for me as a lead.

That said, I have led teams, and enjoy it.

I recommend the following books to anyone interested in leadership: And if you are a Senior looking to go to Principal, you are.

- Getting to Yes.

- Difficult Conversations.

Now I also recommend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rStL7niR7gs

The last video seems odd... until you realize it is how power works.

Think about why your manager has power, etc... Why odd things happen. And that video often explains it.

Good luck. Maybe it is time to pump the brakes on the car, or turn. Just some advice.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#92
One thing I’ve heard others do is they look at the next job they want to have, work with those people, and then, put what you did with those people on your resume. And then in the back of your head keep thinking what you might do differently. Some of the more hungrier folks just shamelessly claim the next levels wins as their own on their resume and speak to those. Not saying you should do any of this but this is just what I’ve seen. Good luck.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#93
post #74

You seem to have some misguided ideas about management that you first need to get rid of. - Management isn't a "next step" for developers but an entirely different career path. You don't naturally progress into it, and no one owes it to you. It takes a whole new skill set and lots of deliberate work to make the switch. - Like any other job title, "manager" isn't handed out based on seniority but skill. If you think i…

Speaking as someone with a decade as an engineer and another decade in management roles, I wholeheartedly agree with every single point here. I suggest reading The Manager's Path by Camille Fournier to better understand what the path to management (and beyond) looks like.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#94
You can not - not enough spots. People telling that management is not a "next step" while not lying are just not telling the truth. Management is a big club and you ain't in it. Basically everyone can be manager despite the fact saying otherwise. However developers are rare. Thus it is counterproductive to promote programmers. You can perhaps leverage your experience by moving to another company to a management position directly.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#95

Good managers don’t seek out the role for its own sake; they naturally become one. The best managers I’ve seen (and have had the pleasure of working with) were extremely talented ICs who got along really well with others, and naturally transitioned to management roles when their own projects became too big in scope to handle on their own. The absolute worst managers I’ve seen (thankfully, none were my manager) only b…

> as a result, hated it, and went back to being hackers.

How do you do this part? I know many ICs that have gone into management, hated it, and then felt "stuck" and unable to go back to being an IC.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#96

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The obvious solution is not to become a manager, but to become an 18-year-old.

We need more of this type of root cause analysis in our industry.

How do I get into your industry?

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#97
post #82
post #74

You seem to have some misguided ideas about management that you first need to get rid of. - Management isn't a "next step" for developers but an entirely different career path. You don't naturally progress into it, and no one owes it to you. It takes a whole new skill set and lots of deliberate work to make the switch. - Like any other job title, "manager" isn't handed out based on seniority but skill. If you think i…

> If you think it is "humiliating" to get managed by someone younger than you then you don't have the right mindset for the role to begin with. Granted, the industry seems to feed this, too. For example, two former [younger] underlings occupy the next two spots up on my chain of command. It seems like I am constantly asked why I didn't move up or "get the promotion". I respond with "they do a better job of managing t…

Why don't you just say you were offered it and preferred not to?

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#98
post #78

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Interesting. I never thought of managers as being a "higher rank" than those they are managing. Managers are just doing a particular job that needs to be done, like all of the other jobs in a company.

Ranking is about a hieararchy and where someone is positioned in it. Managers are positioned higher in the hiearchy so it seems fair to say they are "higher rank". Whether that translates to real power or not depends on a lot of things. I think this discussion is conflating ranking and skill and these don't often correlate. > Managers are just doing a particular job that needs to be done, like all of the other jobs i…

> Managers are positioned higher in the hiearchy

What hierarchy? Are you talking about the org chart? I don't see that as a hierarchy in the sense I think it's being used here. It's just a description of who is managing who, not of "rank" in some sort of militaryesque sense. My manager is not my "superior". He's the person responsible for ensuring that everyone in his department is working in an aligned manner, and for ensuring that everyone has the fewest roadblocks possible.

> That particular job can fire you, in most cases.

Well, he can't, really. He can recommend that I be fired, and his recommendation carries a great deal of weight, but it's not his call. But ignoring that...

I don't see how that's very relevant. But perhaps I'm just being misled by the use of the term "rank". That implies a superiority of some sort to me, and that superiority doesn't exist. It's just a different job, is all.

It also implies that "manager" is a rung up on a ladder, and I don't think it is. It's a different job altogether, not an evolution of the job I have.

Re: Ask HN: Stuck as a developer for 15 years. How to become a manager?

#100
I've mentored many developers at this stage in their career - it's a challenging leap to make, because your moving from a world where improving your technical skills moves you forward to a world where you need to improve your soft skills to progress.

Some general advice that may prove helpful:

- Read "The managers path" by Camille Fournier. It's an excellent and very readable guide, with great advice at any stage of your career. - Be aware of the difference between "People Management" and "Technical leadership" and know which direction you want to head in. Some companies merge the two roles to a greater or lesser extent. Others clearly define and seperate them. - Look for opportunities to mentor others, particularly grads or juniors. Mentoring is often the first step on a path to leadership or management. - Leadership means being responsible for the success of a team, not just your own work. Look for opportunities to step up, take ownership and be responsible for your whole teams success. - Find a mentor and meet with them at least once a fortnight for at least half an hour. Come to each meeting prepared with a list of things you would like to get their perspective on.

Lastly DO NOT lie on your resume. Lying would be a really great way to land up in a position where you don't have the support you need to succeed. It's fine to be up front and say "I've been static for a long time in my current job without opportunities for promotion. I'm keen to find a role where I can be mentored and grow into a manager and leader"

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