> the distinction between something being "bad" vs "just not for me." Your comment made me think of that.
> If you really perceive algorithmic live coding as torture, then it makes all the sense in the world to avoid it. "It's not for you."
I wasn't aware of this concept, but I can assure you that I don't have such a mindset. I tend to enjoy finding difficult challenges and complex topics to dig into which are way outside of my comfort zone. Leetcode practice is different though, and yes, it does feel like torture to me and some other developers who tend to be rather quiet in general. While it's really tempting, I don't think I'm the right person to act as a community voice on this topic, although I do chime in sometimes.
When you're just starting this career path, it feels like homework. Heck, it's even exciting to solve problems which are a bit more complicated than whatever you're exposed to in school. However, try to spend several years in a row (8 in my case) trying and failing to pass such interviews (several in-person ones each year) and it will feel like torture. "If you'll spend a little bit more time on Leetcode, surely you'll pass next time..." No thanks! I'm done. The issue is not the lack of training, but the way in which these interviews are conducted by certain people which causes me distress and severe anxiety. I moaned about this before in various HN threads related to interviews and I might bother to blog about it some day.
> In this case, the cost of avoiding opportunities that require such interviews is that you may have fewer opportunities and they may be less lucrative on average.
Hasn't been my experience, but I'm not looking to maximise my income. I looked for advice on negotiation strategies and whatnot and felt happy with the offers I got. Others might have a different experience in this regard, but I think asking for less money in exchange for a psychologically-safe interview process is nonsense. At the end of the day, you get what you pay for and there are review sites anyway.
> For example, if the thing that makes this "torture" for you something like anxiety when being watched? If so, probably something like that shows up in other places in your life and maybe valuable to tackle anyway.
I think you're making certain assumptions here. I don't need to "tackle" my perception of what's safe and comfortable. We're all different and that's a good thing.