I hate being a "tourist". What I do love to do, though, is to be an expat. To actually go live in a city, for several months at least. Long enough to really know a few places and even already have some "favorite" ones. Long enough to have an actual keychain with car keys / apartment/house keys etc. and not just a card to swipe to enter the hotel room.
I lived in Poland (Krakow), Croatia (Zagreb), Japan (Tokyo), the USA (L.A. and then a bit more south, Orange County), Spain (Valencia), Belgium (my native country), France (french riviera), nearly settled in Andorra (wonderful tiny country hidden in the mountains) then I now live in Luxemburg. I'll probably move again in a few years.
I've never been a tourist in any of these places. I've always been renting or buying actual places (i.e not an AirBnB).
I do join expat meetups and get to meet like-minded people. They're not tourists.
And tourism in countries where tourism represent too big of a percentage of the GDP is an issue. France is now rethinking its approach to tourism for example: too many people all coming at mostly the same times of the year at the same spot.
You don't get to see a country when you're a tourist: you get to see mostly other tourists (at the hotel, in the streets where the hotels are, in museums, in restaurants for you'll invariably end up on the restaurants where tourists go and not the ones where the locals do go). I don't see the point.