10 years used to feel like a really long time to me. Now that I have two young kids the idea of missing out on 10 years of their life growing up is in the impossible to handle part of my brain. I feel bad for everyone effected and yes even her.
While I do feel bad about the kids, I also know that society has normalised taking children away from one parent, often with little to no recourse.
So while I feel bad for the kids, it's no worse than what society has done to million of children, and do to thousands per day, even as I type out this message.
At least her kids will have advantages the other kids don't get.