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Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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Not a textbook, but John Gleick's The theory of Chaos is a great read on chaos theory - very approchable!

That was a fun read. But it was written at the height of interest in chaos theory and so some of the curious things it talked about, like the Feigenbaum constants, went nowhere

Did chaos theory as a whole go anywhere? Where is it used, meteorology?

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It by Chris Voss. It made me change how I aproach a negotiation in about every aspect of my life. https://www.amazon.com/dp/0062407805

Pro tip: GPT-4 was trained on this book and can implement Chris Voss’ negotiating strategies quite effectively.

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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"You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen.

The author discusses that often when conflict in communication arises between men/women, it resembles the same tensions in cross-cultural communication.

The author discusses that some communication styles are competitive (with a heavy lens around status and confrontation), other styles are cooperative (with a heavy emphasis on belonging, relatedness, similarities).

The author discusses example of such conflicts. -- One example was, when someone's complaining about a problem, a competitive-oriented mindset typically tries suggest a solution, whereas a related-orient mindset typically shows empathy. Crossing the wires: suggesting a solution might come across an uncaring, and expressing empathy might come across as unhelpful.

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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The Elements of Programming Style by Kernighan and Plauger Software Tools by Kernighan and Plauger The Psychology of Computer Programming by Weinberg A cartoon-illustrated DIY Honda Civic repair book from the 80's I no longer remember the name of.

+1 for Software Tools by Kernighan and Plauger. It was eye-opening for me because it really made me understand the unix philosophy of composing programs out of smaller programs.

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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"You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen. The author discusses that often when conflict in communication arises between men/women, it resembles the same tensions in cross-cultural communication. The author discusses that some communication styles are competitive (with a heavy lens around status and confrontation), other styles are cooperative (with a heavy emphasis on belonging, relatedness, similarities). The a…

How is helping someone with a solution “status and confrontation”?

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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"You Just Don't Understand" by Deborah Tannen. The author discusses that often when conflict in communication arises between men/women, it resembles the same tensions in cross-cultural communication. The author discusses that some communication styles are competitive (with a heavy lens around status and confrontation), other styles are cooperative (with a heavy emphasis on belonging, relatedness, similarities). The a…

How is helping someone with a solution “status and confrontation”?

You just don’t understand (seriously).

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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A few that stick in my brain from 20 years ago:

Introduction to the Theory of Computation by Michael Sipser

The classic Hennessy and Patterson: Computer Architecture: A Quantitative Approach

Gray & Reuter: Transaction Processing: Concepts and Techniques

I also think the Gang of Four book always was and still is a tremendously useful read.

& SICP, natch.

Re: Ask HN: What are the most eye-opening textbooks you have ever read?

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Forest of the Gods from Lithuanian writer Balys Sruoga. It’s cruel book how bandits treat intellectuals in concentration camp. Written in funny style hiding really bad details from reader. It is very eye-opening what one could expect from fellow human being under unfortunate circumstances.
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