Yup. A lot of heavy users of Postgres eventually hit the same barrier. Here's another take from Uber: https://www.uber.com/blog/postgres-to-mysql-migration/ I had a similar personal experience. In my previous job we used Postgres to implement a task queuing system, and it created a major bottleneck, resulting in tons of concurrency failures and bloat. And most dangerously, the system failed catastrophically under loa…
I remember when Uber got roasted by the postgresql mailing list over this: ultimately, a post mortem was done on all of Uber's claims, and it was basically proven that they were incompetent, did not read any available "best practices" guides, did not seek any external help, and treated it like it was some sort of mysql-esque database and used it as wrong as humanly possible. Uber's workload at the time, ironically, w…
https://www.postgresql.org/docs/current/runtime-config-resou... tells you what all the parameters do, but not why and how to change them.
"If you have a dedicated database server with 1GB or more of RAM, a reasonable starting value for shared_buffers is 25% of the memory in your system." Why not set it to 25% of the memory in my system by default, then?
"Sets the base maximum amount of memory to be used by a query operation (such as a sort or hash table) before writing to temporary disk files. If this value is specified without units, it is taken as kilobytes. The default value is four megabytes (4MB)." Yes, and? Should I set it higher? When?
https://wiki.postgresql.org/wiki/Tuning_Your_PostgreSQL_Serv... hasn't been updated for two years and explains only a handful of parameters.
"If you do a lot of complex sorts, and have a lot of memory, then increasing the work_mem parameter allows PostgreSQL to do larger in-memory sorts which, unsurprisingly, will be faster than disk-based equivalents." How much is a lot? Do I need to care if I'm running mostly OLTP queries?
"This is a setting where data warehouse systems, where users are submitting very large queries, can readily make use of many gigabytes of memory." Okay, so I need to set it higher if I'm running OLAP queries. But how high is too high?
https://wiki.postgresql.org/wiki/Performance_Optimization is just a collection of blog posts written by random (probably smart) people that may or may not be outdated.
So when someone complains their Postgres instance runs like ass and smug Postgres weenies tell them to git gud at tuning, they should be less smug, because if your RDBMS requires extensive configuration to support nontrivial loads, you either make this configuration the default one or, if it's significantly different for different load profiles, put a whole section in the manual that covers day 1 and day 2 operations.