In the 00s, my dad had an issue with the infotainment system of its Peugeot 407 that would no longer boot. An official Peugeot mechanic told him that it would cost something like 4200€ to replace the unit, so he asked me if I could have a look. After a quick search, I found an update for his system, burn it on a CD, and put the CD into its car. The system updated, and then would work normally. Problem fixed for one h…
A lot of dealership mechanics are mindless flowchart followers that aren’t even allowed to use their brain. Though I’m surprised “update” wasn’t a part of that official flowchart. Have had dealership mechanics ignore my notes and identify a part as being failed despite my method of 100% excluding that part as being bad.
I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
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Re: I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
#492Anecdata: Some Hondas (e.g . 2010 Element) exert enough parasitic drain to put the car into a chronically undercharged state if a door is left ajar overnight. The wrong thinking turned out to be: Car is safe in garage, interior lights go off, and my hands are full now -- why bother going back to the door to shut it completely?
Re: I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
#493"Fixed" in the same way I can "fix" a stuck key on a keyboard by physically removing it. They've circumvented the problem but are left with less than what they originally had.
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#494Earlier quoted context omitted.
Asking nicely and not protesting when they didn't manage is okay in my book, to be honest. That was not the problem. Having to experience stuff like these (everyone has their quirks) regularly and learning to deal with it is the hard part in a relationship, is what I'm saying.
Having to experience weird behaviour on a more or less regular basis is not how relationships are supposed to work, thats what I'm saying . There are spouses out there who treat their partner with respect and love, not like a tool to be used to fix up anoyances in life.
Never underestimate how much some people hate onions, and no they won't start up a new dating site to find people like themselves :)
edit: I later saw your comment stating what you reacted to, and yup, that part is mean indeed^^
Re: I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
#495Well this is timely. I have a parasitic draw on my NC Miata. The first mechanic just replaced the battery. The second told me it's normal for the battery to die if you don't drive it for 3 days (because "cars have computers now"). It seems like mechanics really don't like digging into the electrical part of the car... but these days that encompasses more and more of what can go wrong. Without time to dig into it myse…
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#496Earlier quoted context omitted.
Second opinion from someone in a 25 year marriage: do not move to a different partner over a disagreement on onions. You'll be moving a lot.
My comment was not about the onions, but about the "you can eat this at home while I go and find myself some other food elsewhere." part of the story.
Re: I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
#497I've never understood why cars don't just cut power before the battery is too low to start. If that's too complicated then just have an option to cut all power after X hours of non-running time. I bet the old popular theft of car radio is a root cause; cars needed to stay running to keep the alarm active and power the radio continuously so it wouldn't require the unlock code every time you start the vehicle. It's act…
> I've never understood why cars don't just cut power before the battery is too low to start. The design of most cars can't tolerate losing 12V DC power without problems. Clearing superfluous codes after a battery swap is SOP. Cars are build for two simultaneous customers: regulatory regimes and work-a-day 13.5K miles a year workers that start (and thus charge) their cars at least every 48-72 hours. Other use cases a…
Re: I fixed a parasitic drain on my car in 408 days
#498My wife and I gave our old car to her parents. In the subsequent years, its battery kept dying and we had to go over to their place and jump it. Never happened in the prior 7 years we'd owned the car. The mechanic said nothing wrong with the battery, but suggested there might be a parasitic drain somewhere. A few days later, we were visiting them. I looked at the car and saw the door closed, but not properly latched…
Tangent, but what's the rationale for car doors requiring slams? They are the only door I know, at least in common, daily life contexts, that require slamming them with the force of Thor to properly close them.
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#499Earlier quoted context omitted.
Asking nicely and not protesting when they didn't manage is okay in my book, to be honest. That was not the problem. Having to experience stuff like these (everyone has their quirks) regularly and learning to deal with it is the hard part in a relationship, is what I'm saying.
Having to experience weird behaviour on a more or less regular basis is not how relationships are supposed to work, thats what I'm saying . There are spouses out there who treat their partner with respect and love, not like a tool to be used to fix up anoyances in life.
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#500Earlier quoted context omitted.
I think this is more an anecdote than anything else. My wife leaves all sorts of stuff open, and it's really because she's not paying attention, i.e. most of the time she's not fully present. I'm glad to have read this, it gives me a little comfort to see that other people deal with same issues. Sometimes I just close the door for her when she's in the restroom. I feel like a lot of these habits come from having live…
I'm getting older and one of the things I started to notice is that men are just there, doing things that are generally... straightforward. I mean I guess posting on hacker news is probably pretty strange to a lot of people - so ignore that. Anyway, women however, I feel like they build these neurotic behaviors - like learned things that just stick with them forever. Like ouch, the pan was hot, don't do that again, b…
One gender difference is that when these quirks are presented to men, they're a bit more likely to change to a more sensible method. Women tend to get annoyed about the male tendency to suggest solutions to everything. Annoyance can motivate stubbornness.