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They could break out the transactions explicitly. That would help reduce the feeling that they're taking more than their share, if they're not doing that.
They could also sing a song, do a little dance and tweet a word of praise for your generosity. At some point the dance isn't worth the peanut.
Sorry, someone donating $10,000 to their favorite FOSS doesn't want an intermediator to take in $500 just for making the transaction.
Even more so when the actual transaction infrastructure is not going to be their's anyway, but some banks or Stripe or whatever.