I relate to this quite a lot actually. Not the taking of charity type thing, I choose a somewhat similar lifestyle but I acknowledge that it is a choice, so I don't take freebies. Particularly > I would be working 40 hours a week and would get exactly nothing out of it, financially speaking. I relate to that a lot. And all the stuff after it. I don't consider it poverty , just a simpler way of living. I cut my monthl…
I grew up in an isolated farming town and now live in London. Don't get me wrong, I _probably_ won't live here for the rest of my life, but I'm never moving back to my hometown. Not because it's uniquely bad, but because there was _so much_ stuff I wanted to do as a kid that I couldn't.
Like join a martial arts club. Or be a regular at a comic book store. To go to gigs, learn an unusual instrument, visit a zoo, and yes, try sushi.
The internet helped. Amazon helped quite a bit. But we're social animals, and having _your_ people around helps so much. And it's hard to do that when you live in the sticks.