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Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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My inner ring trap is retirement. I can’t wait to get there.

That sounds like a really unfortunate way to go through life. Maybe you should reflect on possible alternatives?

Why? I'm outta here as quickly as I can afford to. Life is too short to spend it working.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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When you look at individuals who have achieved things you admire, it's so often true that they themselves came from outside the status system that existed at that time.

They now sit within, or atop the current one, but it's often something they themselves have created to a greater or lesser degree.

There's a huge lesson there, I think. Being in that position in the current status system is not and never was their goal. It came as a consequence of acheiving real goals, real success. It was a reality they created.

If you want to emulate them, you won't do it by 'getting in' to that current system, that's for sure. Instead focus on doing your own thing, and maybe one day finding yourself within or atop a new one.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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My inner ring trap is retirement. I can’t wait to get there.

Until you go golfing one time, and are like omg wtf how do people retire, because I’m bored? I say that because that’s what many i know have realized once they (we) didn’t have to work. I suspect the personality of engineering types likes puzzle solving, and is inclined to find some class of puzzles to “work” on.

I guess this is the kind of problem where different people have a different meaning for the term 'retirement'.

for some it means having a source of income that isn't tied to working so that they can do anything including 'working' on things they like without worry of it being a money generating activity.

for others retiring means stopping to work in the broadest possible meaning of the term.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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https://twitter.com/naval/status/1002103497725173760 > Seek wealth, not money or status. Wealth is having assets that earn while you sleep. Money is how we transfer time and wealth. Status is your place in the social hierarchy. https://twitter.com/naval/status/1002103627387813888 > Ignore people playing status games. They gain status by attacking people playing wealth creation games. From @naval’s Twitter thread “how…

Options, huh?

Got it. Puts on Google here we go.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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I think rejecting status wholesale is also a huge mistake. Here’s the harsh reality. Many people judge and make decisions based on status. You can purport be above it and bootstrap and work as hard as you want but that one guy with status will get the raise he needed and now you don’t have. You can then try to lie to yourself that that is just superficial status. But it’s not. That guy can now use those resources to…

It seems obvious to me that focusing on doing the right thing is good, while focusing more on managing everyone else’s impression of you is bad. In fact I thought everyone knew this.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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https://twitter.com/naval/status/1002103497725173760 > Seek wealth, not money or status. Wealth is having assets that earn while you sleep. Money is how we transfer time and wealth. Status is your place in the social hierarchy. https://twitter.com/naval/status/1002103627387813888 > Ignore people playing status games. They gain status by attacking people playing wealth creation games. From @naval’s Twitter thread “how…

Yep. As a HF mentor used to tell me - Wealth buys optionality. Variance is the outcome.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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I think rejecting status wholesale is also a huge mistake. Here’s the harsh reality. Many people judge and make decisions based on status. You can purport be above it and bootstrap and work as hard as you want but that one guy with status will get the raise he needed and now you don’t have. You can then try to lie to yourself that that is just superficial status. But it’s not. That guy can now use those resources to…

It seems obvious to me that focusing on doing the right thing is good, while focusing more on managing everyone else’s impression of you is bad. In fact I thought everyone knew this.

Gotta do both if you want to retain the right to do the correct things in the future.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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My inner ring trap is retirement. I can’t wait to get there.

Until you go golfing one time, and are like omg wtf how do people retire, because I’m bored? I say that because that’s what many i know have realized once they (we) didn’t have to work. I suspect the personality of engineering types likes puzzle solving, and is inclined to find some class of puzzles to “work” on.

Sure. But if you’ve got enough money to not have to work, you can choose to solve whatever puzzles you want.

The best position in academia is “emeritus professor”.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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I think rejecting status wholesale is also a huge mistake. Here’s the harsh reality. Many people judge and make decisions based on status. You can purport be above it and bootstrap and work as hard as you want but that one guy with status will get the raise he needed and now you don’t have. You can then try to lie to yourself that that is just superficial status. But it’s not. That guy can now use those resources to…

It’s okay to use status as a tool in a wealth creation game. Encouraged even! It’s called leverage in that case.

It’s ill-advised to chase status as a goal in itself.

Re: Pursuing status will never bring true happiness

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I think rejecting status wholesale is also a huge mistake. Here’s the harsh reality. Many people judge and make decisions based on status. You can purport be above it and bootstrap and work as hard as you want but that one guy with status will get the raise he needed and now you don’t have. You can then try to lie to yourself that that is just superficial status. But it’s not. That guy can now use those resources to…

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