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One can define effort in that way, and arrive at the conclusion you did, but it is not what cognitive dissonance is typically used to mean. But that definition of effort as it relates to the ability to “survive” does not seem useful to me. It takes a lot of effort to manually dig a ditch compared to using an excavator, but you would not pay the person that shows up with a shovel more than the person that shows up wit…
I used to dig ditches in places where excavators couldn't go for a living, and I'm familiar with the contract rate differences for that type of labor and equipment. My point is that the disparity is such a chasm that my brain can't reconcile it. We aren't talking about ditch digging, we are talking about serving food to the people of Seattle. All the software engineers in Seattle, in my experience, love to frequent d…
If you had to pay more at their restaurant then your quality of life (profit) will go down.
I am glad you are still human and your gut cannot take it. Maybe look at using some of your savings to help the chef start a coop restaurant?