>Unless you went to a very small school, the prom queen always had lots of options.
No, C was really the only available systems options. C and C++.
>Tinder is irrelevant. The winners are the people who eventually she chooses.
In the dating market today, tinder has created essentially a shit show for males. With that much choice and selection female hypegamy becomes expressed to the max. The top 80% of the top females match with the top 20% of males; It has never been this way for most of humanity. Even the top female always had a limited pool to choose from and her feelings would naturally calibrate to that fact. With tinder everything changed. You get the top tier males having a lot of fun and never settling down, while the rest just give up. That's hook up culture for you.
C would NEVER have been chosen if there were more options.
>As for "is woke", I have no idea how to read that point.
It's the same thing. Wokeness is the result of more womens' rights. Historically, all women couldn't be as selective as they are now because they couldn't hunt for food or work corporate jobs. Survival depended on them finding a man. This is no longer the case and is responsible for much greater female selectivity.
Again C succeeded because of very few alternative options and necessity.
Anyway I can see why you or other people missed the analogy. You have to be familiar with the modern dating game AND familiar with what programming was like 20-30 years ago. Most people capable of even making the comparison have been out of the game for ages.
The state of programming languages that are chosen today is very very much like the hookup culture of today. Especially on the front end, the front end is a woke prom queen for sure.