Honestly most of the people that approach me to learn Linux, I have them follow the Gentoo Handbook to compile and configure a Linux workstation from scratch.
Unfortunately when the gentoo wiki got nuked like 12 years ago I was in the middle of a reinstall and so I couldn’t finish it and moved on to other things. Used arch for a while but it became my second job to keep it running and it wasn’t worth it. As things started branching out I no longer understand what’s what. Every time there is some drama over some decision some distro made I feel like I don’t know either. Wayland or no wayland, snap, etc.