I used to think I hated Docker, but I think what I actually hate is using Docker locally (building/rebuilding/cache-busting images, spinning containers up and down, the extra memory usage on macOS, etc etc). I don't need all that for development, I just want to run my dang code But I've been really enjoying it as a way of just telling a PaaS "hey here's the compiler/runtime my code needs to run", and then mostly not…
It's worth noting that the Docker experience is very different across platforms. If you just run Docker on Linux, it's basically no different than just running any other binary on the machine. On macOS and Windows, you have the overhead of a VM and its RAM to contend with at minimum, but in many cases you also have to deal with sending files over the wire or worse, mounting filesystems across the two OSes, dealing with all of the incongruities of their filesystem and VFS layers and the limitations of taking syscalls and making them go over serialized I/O.
Honestly, Docker, Inc. has put entirely too much work into making it decent. It's probably about as good as it can be without improvements in the operating systems that it runs on.
I think this is unfortunate because a lot of the downsides of "Docker" locally are actually just the downsides of running a VM. (BTW, in case it's not apparent, this is the same with WSL2: WSL2 is a pretty good implementation of the Linux-in-a-VM thing, but it's still just that. Managing memory usage is, in particular, a sore spot for WSL2.)
(Obviously, it's not exactly like running binaries directly, due to the many different namespacing and security APIs docker uses to isolate the container from the host system, but it's not meaningfully different. You can also turn these things off at will, too.)