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Yes, because as we all know, service staff have enormous power and dictate restaurant policy. This is why they're so highly paid and aren't abused at all by customers, for example. /s
The server could have made sure they were aware of the policy before they ordered. Seems like the best way to make sure you get a tip to me.
People like to act as if wait staff are completely innocent, but when I was younger I had a policy that if a female waitress started touching me close to the closing out of the deal she got no tip.
I personally find that behavior gross.