Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
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Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#32I don't bookmark anything anymore because my browser's autocomplete is so good at finding what I need and lasts like 2 years. If I don't need to retrieve it within that time (and obviously retrieving it will reset that interval), I probably will never need it. And if something is SO important that I want to save it forever then I will have shared it with enough friends that I can search our conversation histories to find things. This almost failed me once because I forgot who I linked one thing to but within a couple days I remembered and linked it to several more people.
I guess in this case for the TRULY important things I should probably bookmark but well YMMV. I haven't had an actual problem with this. And the trust in the system stops me from obsessive record-keeping.
(I guess I should add that I do use some websites' built-in save functions, sometimes, but tbh they're pretty write-only, and I only really click them a couple times as a novelty)
Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#33Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#34Then on the phone, remove all apps that allows consumption (social media, games, readers, youtube, even the browser). Debloat it with adb too. Switch off all notification except for your main chat app (like whatsapp) and alarms. If still too distracting, set the screen to monochrome. Do not allow your phone to enter your bedroom & charge in another room.
Same with laptops/tv, keep them out of the bedroom.
For series, movies & games, have a set window per week/month to watch/play, do not endlessly play when Idle. Give your brain something intentional to do.
Avoid pornography as it can hook an adhd brain to the max and destroy your attention span.
Avoid caffeine if you can, drink more water, go bed earlier - it all adds up.
You basically have to change your relationship with the computers/internet and not allow yourself to consume/browse without intent or a clear goal. The internet is basically crack for our brains, so avoid it as much as possible.
Get some physical exercise and/or sunlight, once a day. Something as simple as stretching for 15 minutes makes a huge difference.
Remember that your brain WANTS stuff to do, it will generate an endless stream of crap to do if you don't learn to focus it. The internet is just the easiest way for it keep busy if you don't use it.
Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#35So I usually try to answer these questions for me:
1. What is the probability I will actually read it?
2. How much benefit is actually contained within the information the article might provide?
3. How much stress will I experience when I realize I am not catching up?
If I am honest on most of the things on HN score rather low on 1+2 but medium on 3. I can make the conscious decision that the trade-off is not worth it for me.
Combine that with a rule that either I will read it now or it's not important enough and usually I can browse through the comments a little bit trying to siphon the gist of an article in a couple minutes and failing that I will just move on.
Apart form that it has also helped is realizing that I absolutely loathe reading any long form articles. Even if I am really interested in the topic, I just cannot concentrate long enough to read any technical long form article that contains any form of 'fluff' in the writing. I started to hate reading these kinds of articles more and more.
Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#36Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#37It's not :) Compared to other sites, HN is quite a healthy place. News are anxiogenic, and Twitter is as toxic as it gets.
Moderation makes a good job of keeping the place sane, and even if it's just reading the headlines and comments, at least we kind of know what's going in the tech world.
Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#38Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?
#39Earlier quoted context omitted.
Yeah. I have several levels of "things I will never get around to": 1. I keep a tab open for a few days until I have 200 tabs open. I then bulk save them using OneTab and never look at that either. 2. Things I want to remain in my gaze goes in my bookmark toolbar until it scrolls off the end and is never seen again 3. I occasionally use regular bookmarks and have come to accept the fact that I never look at them (alt…
I resist doing any of that in the first place because it's just giving in to an unhealthy habit. The time and attention I spent cataloging was supposed to be for something else.
Do I need this? Not sure... One click to stop worrying about it and move on.
I certainly strive to do no cataloguing or sorting of this stuff. That was an early valuable lesson I learned (even before getting diagnosed)