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Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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I'm going to tell you what worked for me, with the explicit caveat that it may not work for you and/or you may not find it palatable. I use browser extensions to timegate the time spent in websites that I know hit me in my weak spots and tend to send me into time-wasting sessions that I have nothing to show for. There's Stayfocusd and Leechblock, and probably other alternatives. This worked for a few years, but it st…

Ugh, wish it was easier to get hold of ADHD meds (or even a diagnosis) here in the UK. I've got it, well aware I have and have avoided even attempting to go to the GP to get medicated as from what I can see the wait times go into the years.

Is it 'worth it'? I.E is your life noticably beter for being medicated for it?

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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post #21

I'm going to tell you what worked for me, with the explicit caveat that it may not work for you and/or you may not find it palatable. I use browser extensions to timegate the time spent in websites that I know hit me in my weak spots and tend to send me into time-wasting sessions that I have nothing to show for. There's Stayfocusd and Leechblock, and probably other alternatives. This worked for a few years, but it st…

Ugh, wish it was easier to get hold of ADHD meds (or even a diagnosis) here in the UK. I've got it, well aware I have and have avoided even attempting to go to the GP to get medicated as from what I can see the wait times go into the years. Is it 'worth it'? I.E is your life noticably beter for being medicated for it?

> Is it 'worth it'? I.E is your life noticably beter for being medicated for it?

Yes, absolutely.

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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I'm going to tell you what worked for me, with the explicit caveat that it may not work for you and/or you may not find it palatable. I use browser extensions to timegate the time spent in websites that I know hit me in my weak spots and tend to send me into time-wasting sessions that I have nothing to show for. There's Stayfocusd and Leechblock, and probably other alternatives. This worked for a few years, but it st…

> I still have to use the same support systems I used before though. It's not a miracle cure, it just "adds" willpower to my toolbox.

It switched all those support systems from kinda work and absolutely necessary to kinda necessary and absolutely work.

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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I’m not sure it’s ADHD. It seems that you just enjoy reading about interesting things and fantasising about doing them yourself - but you don’t enjoy ACTUALLY doing them. Every creative field is full of people like that. These are the people who’ve been talking about writing that novel for the past 15 years. Or „painters” who paint one picture a year. I don’t think it’s neccessarily a medical condition - just a character trait. I know I am mostly like that.

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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post #21

I'm going to tell you what worked for me, with the explicit caveat that it may not work for you and/or you may not find it palatable. I use browser extensions to timegate the time spent in websites that I know hit me in my weak spots and tend to send me into time-wasting sessions that I have nothing to show for. There's Stayfocusd and Leechblock, and probably other alternatives. This worked for a few years, but it st…

Ugh, wish it was easier to get hold of ADHD meds (or even a diagnosis) here in the UK. I've got it, well aware I have and have avoided even attempting to go to the GP to get medicated as from what I can see the wait times go into the years. Is it 'worth it'? I.E is your life noticably beter for being medicated for it?

You can get equal benefits from meds and coaching, but it's relatively effortless to benefit from coaching with meds. The first time I took a stimulant, it kicked in basically immediately and suddenly nothing was difficult except coping with not having done it earlier.

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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Yes, this is helpful to me too. I still sometimes get stuck in a loop of starting projects but the reality of how hard actually building something from scratch knocks me down.

you don't have to finish it, you can even give the half finished projects away to someone who enjoys having them - sell as art or something

This is actually an interesting idea

If I was picking it up I'd want a docker or similar so I could just start hacking

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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In general I usually just disconnect from the Internet when I need to get stuff done. Phone goes in a drawer too. It's very relaxing.

Realistically, most of "news" isn't actually stuff that's happened, but just opinion and speculation. The remaining fraction will reach you if it's important.

I've also found that most of my procrastination is from not knowing what to do next and sort of hopping back and forth between things I think needs to be done, so something like GTD or just a todo.txt-file has been amazing.

Re: Ask HN: How do ADHD people cope on here?

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Fellow ADHS person here - it's an addiction, it's not funny and it's close to a personal hell depending how worse it is.

If you can go offline and don't read HN or other news on the internet do it. It doesn't matter. Practice ignoring it. Turn off the internet - not forever but long enough every day that you realize in what situation you are in.

Why I'm saying such harsch things?

Because you (and me) are bullshitting ourselves here - we are consuming news, articles and comments and looking for some insights or new information but we can't link it to existing knowledge mostly or get sidetracked and lose control of our own directions, things to do because these are probably dull, difficult or boring and have consequences - so they cause anxiety - and it's easier and mostly automatic behavior to run away from them and just fill your head with random tidbits on here. I'm not saying this site is bad - don't get me wrong - it's just that reading for hours here every day will do you no good and won't improve anything.

What to do instead?

ADHD is all about executive dysfunction and working on improving things there can have a huge impact - medication might help but is no panacea - stress, anxiety, outright fear can also cause this behavior and make it worse (at least for me).

If you are in education or school go offline, go the lab, go to the lectures, meet other poeple in real life and work with them, this helps me a lot - take a pen and paper and work on problem sets or meet with other students - go from reading/consuming to writing/creating - make a shedule and be gently to yourself because you totally ignore it - but exercise getting better at it - exercise itself also helps, so does settings time-limits like stop working on something at a time, pomodoro technique and things like that.

This won't work very well or at all depending how deep you are in the trouble but if you catch yourself drifting away be gentle to yourself and practice taking control again.

Work torwards mastering yourself and what is in front of you, you may think it's not as cool or important but that is probably very likely wrong - do interact offline with real people, solve real problems and don't run away from it - face your shortcomings and failures and learn from them or at least avoid running away from your reality.

You need to learn to be honest with yourself and work torwards tackling realistic work in small pieces for things to improve. Going into writing/creating mode helps and also slows you down and puts real problems in front of you that are worth solving (or ditch the project because you had wrong ideas about that)

And be gentle to yourself it's okay to do gown the rabbit hole once in a while.

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