I think it's crazy how they don't want to change cause it'd disrespect the work of maintainers of existing projects. Python packaging is screwed if maintaining all packaging software at the cost of functionality is the goal
The most common and enthusiastic answer was: Packaging and distribution.
I think to say that "large numbers of python developers think packaging is bad and should be fixed" undersells the current sentiment. I think there are large numbers of python developers with boots on the ground who are _utterly sick to death_ of the problem and willing to accept drastic measures resulting inconsiderable suffering if just means it means the issue goes away. People are in other words, getting rather desperate and discontent.
Upstream needs to do a little soul searching and come to an understanding that whatever ideological rock they're chained to that is preventing some solution from emerging has a high chance of not being moored in the needs of reality.