Haugeland is GOFAI/cognitive science, not directly relevant to modern machine learning variety of models unless you are doing reinforcement learning or trees stuff (hey poker/chess/Go bots are pretty cool!). Russel and Norvig are the typical introductory textbooks for those. Marks and Haykins are all severely out of date (they have solid content, but they don't have the same scale of modern deep learning which has ma…
To your second point I have a sneaking suspicion whatever is recommended in this very thread will suddenly jump in its estimation as a “classic.” History is made up as it goes along!
https://books.google.com/books/about/Neural_Smithing.html?id...
Take a look at the Google Books preview (click view sample). The basics are all there, intro to biological history of neural networks, backpropagation, gradient descent, and partial derivatives etc. It even hints at teacher-student methods!
The only issue is that it missed out on two decades of hardware development (and a bag of other optimization tricks). Modern deep learning implementations requires machine sympathy at scale. It also doesn't have any literature on autoregressive networks like RNNs or image processing tricks like CNNs.