You also appear —as other threads have— to have carried on pushing money into this black hole long after the initial problems. If a payment processor doesn't start giving me my money, I stop using them.
As others have said, stop double-counting your losses. If you send out stock that cost you $100k, expecting $150k, your loss isn't $250k. You have lost $100k and some marketing. You might argue that you've lost potential sales too but if you try to write those off in your accounts, I can't imagine a tax authority that isn't going to audit you back to the stone-age for that sort of stunt.
Honestly the more throwaways I see making these accusations of Stripe, the less I believe them. If nothing else, you're an idiot for not limiting them damage earlier.