1Pass, a family account, primarily for the sharing features, and the good integrations into iOS.
The biggest challenge with passwords was finding a tool for the whole family, which is more important than the most secure. If not, then it won't be used and we'll be back at the days of sharing "the family password" on everything. Yes, that password is on HIBP.
As a couple we have a shared vault that most things go into. We have equal access, she's a full admin.
As a family we have a shared vault for lower-tier things that the kids also need access to.
They all know to create passwords in 1Pass and save them into their vaults. It's not always perfect, but it's a great start. Generally we'll do 2FA within 1Pass, which is another weakness, but again, some 2FA is better than no 2FA, and OTP is vastly better than SMS.
Also saves a lot of problems with the kids (in this case ages 10+) not knowing their iCloud, Roblox, etc passwords. They're all saved, either of us can look them up.
The kids have had their accounts hacked and socially engineered, and also seen friends share their passwords which turn out to be their passwords to everything, and so get their more important stuff hacked (eg. as a teen their Snapchat seems pretty vital).
Overall 1Pass has a great security track record, their support has been friendly and useful, and I've had friends of friends I respect work their who are pretty trustworthy.
It's not the best app (but having used some others it's also pretty good).
Personally I have Yubikeys for 2FA for critical services that support them.
I also don't want to have to support this myself. Password access is pretty critical, and has a low SLA, must work. I've done on-call tech-support for over a decade, I don't do it at home. So, no home-hosted stuff.