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Music THEORY isn't "all about the ears" at all, though. It is the conceptual framework & vocabulary you use to talk about music, not perform it. If kids love performing and listening to music, they'll want to talk about it. And initially they'll be limited to things like "I love that thing it does near the middle when the bass is going baBONG baBONG baBONG then everything suddenly get really quiet and strange". That'…
It's more diverse than that. Some do end up learning theory but many great musicians don't. Here's a delightful example: http://www.thestar.com/entertainment/article/1090345--video-...
We're talking about music theory in genres where it is important, i.e where the music is involved and advanced. Three minute fifties rock-n-roll tunes is not where this happens.
Little Richards is great, but not in the musically advanced way Charles Mingus, Miles Davies, etc are great. He's great for the raw fun/energy/danceability impact of his music.
So, not really a counter-example.