> We demand individuals to do pointless self flogging rituals like tediously organizing their recycling just to have it be buried in china.
German here. It's not that hard to separate paper, glass, metal, plastics and remainder waste. Paper, glass and metal are recycled at very high rates (over 80% for paper and glass [1][2] and over 90% for metal), and the separation between plastics and remainder waste allows trash incinerator plants to better control their output and, at least assuming that we get large scale post-consumer plastics recycling plants, we already have the behavior and logistics established in place and only need to divert the streams at the collection level.
The key thing is, this sorting has to happen at the consumer, because filtering out valuables for recycling from a merged waste stream is all but impossible and at least in the case of paper, permanently kills off its recyclability.
[1] https://www.umweltbundesamt.de/daten/ressourcen-abfall/verwe...
[2] https://www.bmuv.de/themen/wasser-ressourcen-abfall/kreislau...
[3] https://de.statista.com/statistik/daten/studie/156541/umfrag...