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Totally agree! We used this book for our 3.5yo son and then even faster with his 2.5yo brother. It somehow gets a layer deeper in terms of understanding, empathizing, and managing behavior.
Absolutely. It's amazing how concisely she lays it all out too. I hope people don't think I'm being sarcastic when I say that it is the perfect example of how a guide/tutorial should be written. The book could also be named the Mythical Dad-Week.
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#172“Out of the Crisis” by Demming: helped me see the best way to manage projects isn’t always about fixing problems, it starts with reducing uncertainty. “Seeing like a state”, “Knowledge and Power”, and “Antifragile”, top down control of a system always clashes with bottom up understanding, so experts in a field need humility when working with a new system and need to learn from the people who work with it every day. “…
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#173This suggestion is humorous, but absolutely true: Potty Training In 3 Days. Before having children, I thought I was fairly empathetic and introspective, but raising a child helped me realize how superficial those traits in myself were. I'm being completely honest when I say this book made me a better leader and project manager - having a better understanding of the motivations of others, incentivizing those looking t…
“Can a man be a soldier and father?” Mel Gibson: “I would think so. I hope being good at one makes me better at the other.” (And vice versa). - from movie “We were soldiers … and young”
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#175The thing that taught me the most about solving problems was doing a bunch of autograded systems programming assignments, and reading about how other people went about doing the assignments
I developed this mindset (note this is for writing code for an autograder that no one else will read, it isn't going into a long term codebase):
- only do the bare minimum necessary to satisfy all criteria
- ignore any bloat that people suggest unless it's part of the shortest cost path
- figure out one way of doing something and just reuse it so that you can use the mental energy elsewhere
- reread the instructions so many times that you can mentally "see" all the logic before the first line gets written
- try to work in long bursts over a short term as opposed to short bursts over a long term because context switching is too expensive
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#176Interesting fact is I noticed that not many book titles are repeating in this thread. This means there is no single book that can change your thinking, I think one have to find it on their own. Most of the time the best book for you is the one that you don't know will be the best book. You just figure it out months or years later.
Or maybe people read comments before posting. There's a dozen of books I'd mention if they weren't mentioned already.
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#177Ways of Seeing by John Berger. It's a short book, written about 50 years ago to accompany a British TV series, which you can find on YouTube, and which I highly recommend before reading the book.
Its a book about visual experience. Painting, advertisements, television. Pardon the pun, but it was eye opening when I read it and understood how advertising works, and today, years after the first reading and now in the context of what is the most graphically and visually intense society we have ever lived in, I find the messaging even more relevant.
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#1782. On a similar theme, “The Lady Tasting Tea” (David Salsburg) was a wonderful history of the development of statistics as a mathematical discipline. I found it absolutely fascinating to map out how individual personalities were buffeted and shaped by larger historical events and movements (e.g. eugenics in the late 19th century, WW2, the rise of the Soviet Union, etc.) into asking questions of data that propelled statistics forward. Disciplines we think of as being “hard” (math, CS, statistics, physics) have been shaped by social forces in a non-linear non-Hegelian fashion, in fits and starts, quite contrary to the way they are presented in a pedagogical setting.
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#179From a software engineering standpoint: - Structure and Interpretation of Computer Programs (doing all the exercises is key). This book helped me think about how programs run, how state is stored, how you can build out asynchronous computation, and how you can build your own languages. - Designing Data Intensive Applications. This book profoundly changed how I think about application performance and data. It describe…
> Structure and Interpretation of Computer Programs (doing all the exercises is key). I tried this, but got stuck on the first exercise that had you prove some mathematical thing. I concluded that I was too stupid for the book.
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#180Plato: Theaetetus, Charmides, Apology And Aristotle's metaphysics and Nicomachean ethics They had an integrated understanding of the different kinds of knowledge and the phenomenology of the mind and the resulting errors we tend to make. And since their traditions were esoteric, it's a nice challenge to read them critically to get what they're pointing at. For those sniffing that these aren't mathematical models or c…