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The fact that mathematics gives us power to predict events in the real world makes it independent of social consensus. If everyone in the world believes that 2+2=5, that doesn't make it less true that 2+2=4 - in the sense that I know for sure, if I take throw two rocks on a pile of two rocks, I'll get a pile of four rocks, not five rocks. I hate this sociologist view that everything depends on the social consensus. G…
That's actually an example of what OP was talking about. You have defined + as the operator that mimics what piles of rocks do, and defined numbers as counting rocks. That's only a tiny fraction of what math does. An interesting and useful one, and mathematicians have put a lot of work into studying basic arithmetic. They have expanded out into numerous other forms, some of which turn out to have correspondence to th…
My point is that whether other mathematicians care or not is completely irrelevant and doesn't subtract from mathematics' power of predicting phenomena in the real world.
Each and every mathematical theory has to be consistent with basic rules of reality - if nothing else, symbolic manipulation relies on basic arithmetic and set theory. Without symbolic manipulation, you can't even express all those "abstract" mathematics - to say that "abstract" mathematics can not have correspondence to the real world is completely false, because of this basic connection.
Now that I think about it - claiming that "mathematics is a social consensus" is exactly what I'd expect from a mathematics professor - a person whose whole life is isolated from reality, limited to the rigid structure of academia, and whose whole existence depends on other people caring. I doubt there is a single (professional) engineer that would say something like that.