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Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

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Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

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Coming from a european perspective this is just completely balls to the walls nuts. Reminds me if that Danish mother who was arrested in N.Y. For leaving her kids sleeping in a tram outside a cafe window (with her on the other side)

You guys (as a general completely unfounded generalization) live and breathe fear.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#142

Because of all of these news of arrests, cops shooting someone unarmed, or people getting easily labelled as felons or sex offenders, US has become synonymous with "trigger-happy" (literally & figuratively) for me. Are people (and specifically cops) in the US really that quick to judge? Does it depend on the state? Or do these cases make the news exactly because of how outrageous and rare they are?

From what I read online (and I can be very wrong) people are trained for 3 to 6 months in the US and then they are cops. It’s a least 2.5 years, 3 years, or 5 years (depending on your career choice) for police officers in Germany.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#143

Earlier quoted context omitted.

So you have much greater freedom than we in Europe, but you do not have the freedom to have you 8 year olds walk outside? edit: yeah, it was sarcarsm.

> ... or if they accidentally trip over while walking. It's (probably) sarcasm.

Hopefully.

On an unrelated note, I'm now going to watch Castle in the Sky tonight, thanks!

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#144

>A woman one block away had called the cops to report a boy walking outside alone. That lady had actually asked Aiden where he lived, verified that it was just down the street, and proceeded to call nonetheless. The cops picked up Aiden on his own block. this is the real problem here. who in their right mind calls the cops on a kid walking around his own neighborhood?

The same type of person who likely is on the HOA board for their neighborhood in order to create their own pathetic little fiefdom and sense of power.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#145

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Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#146
There is no other press about this individual so it's hard to take this at face value without further context.

Nonetheless, I'm struggling to see how the case got as far as it did with her taking a plea deal. In particular, I'd expect that if this went to court and got more press, the DA or whomever is pushing this would drop everything immediately. Or even before any of that happened, somebody just sort of said 'oh, huh, kids probablyh should be able to walk in a neighborhood on their own, and the police shouldn't arrest a parent for permitting it'

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#147

>A woman one block away had called the cops to report a boy walking outside alone. That lady had actually asked Aiden where he lived, verified that it was just down the street, and proceeded to call nonetheless. The cops picked up Aiden on his own block. this is the real problem here. who in their right mind calls the cops on a kid walking around his own neighborhood?

> who in their right mind calls the cops on a kid walking around his own neighborhood? I wish I knew. My children have had the cops called on them for playing in our front yard. I wish they could spend their afternoons climbing trees and playing in the grass like I did growing up, but there's a group of people who see children playing outside of direct parent supervision as a categorically dangerous activity. I'm alw…

Of the high school and jr high kids I know, for most of them their life is on their phone. It doesn't cover that age group but I thought this graph was pretty interesting:

https://www.statista.com/statistics/1310218/time-spent-using...

Generally the younger you are the more likely you are to be a heavy user of your phone. There is no data for it but I would expect that high school and jr high kids are probably even higher users than 18 - 34.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#148

> Waco, Texas What? If this draconian policy is happening in Texas, the land of the free, can I assume it's even worse in the rest of North America? I hope Texans are up-in-arms about this government overreach.

It's frustrating because these kinds of overreactions are based on a perception that crime is much worse than it is. At the same time, the perception that these kinds of incidents are common is itself wrong. Both false perceptions are caused by the "man bites dog" effect, where the media reports what is interesting, and media consumers therefore overestimate the frequency with which these unusual events occur. This k…

> the perception that these kinds of incidents are common is itself wrong

I also thought this was extremely rare, but then when I posted about it on FB a friend commented that it had happened to them. Not as extreme as in the article, but still very traumatic for the family.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#149

Japan has entered the chat... In Japan, children are encouraged from early age to be independent. They even take the subway and bus by themselves, albeit it's significantly safer there than in other parts of the world. Still though, I think people in America have gone off the deep end.

Maybe people in America have gone off the shallow end and bonked their heads.

Re: Mom handcuffed, jailed for 8-year-old son walking half a mile

#150
Richard Branson, in his autobiography, tells a story about his mother asking him one day while she was driving, if he thought he could find his way home from where they were, which was miles away. He got out of the car, his mother drove off, and he walked home. He was four years old.

Here's John Taylor Gatto telling the story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96tEE8XoC0c

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