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I'm confused, do you think some individual leaving is a failure state? Realistically I don't think you can avoid banning or pissing some people off as a moderator, at least in most cases. There's a lot of people whose behavior on internet message boards/chat groups can be succinctly summarized as, "they're an asshole." Now maybe IRL they're a perfectly fine person, but for whatever reason they just engage like an dis…
> I'm confused, do you think some individual leaving is a failure state? When you are trying to grow something, them leaving is a failure. I ran a Minecraft server for many years when I was in high school. It's very hard to strike a balance of: 1. Having players 2. Giving those players a positive experience (banning abusers) 3. Stepping in only when necessary Every player that I banned meant I lost some of my player…
Would HN be bigger if it had always had looser moderation that involved less banning of people? I'm guessing not.
edit: I guess what I was thinking was that often in a community conflict where one party is 'targeted' by another party, banning one of those parties is inevitable. Not always, but often people just cannot be turned away from doing some toxic thing, they feel that they're justified in some way and would rather leave/get banned than stop.