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The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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Because phones aren't allowed to have bezels anymore for some reason, I'm constantly hanging up on people because there's no room for a proximity sensor to turn off the screen so my cheek presses the "hang up" button. It tries to use the front camera as a makeshift sensor, but it doesn't work very well. Recently I reacted with incredulity when the people on the other end could properly hear me through a newly-connect…

This is one of the reasons why I always let the phone hoover a couple of centimeters from my face when talking to someone. Utterly ridiculous!

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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I have never had any of the issues described in this article and I've been using AirPods w/ an iPhone and a MacBook since AirPods came out. My issue with phone calls is 1. Robocalls 2. Robocalls 3. Robocalls 4. Robocalls 5. Robocalls I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. It's completely fixable, but American telcos make money off l…

I got a Pixel phone and spam calls have almost disappeared (1 a month). They seem to be doing something around extra screening that's pretty good and useful.

If you're using a non-Pixel Android phone, you may be able to get the same benefits by switching from your manufacturer's Phone app to Google's. Doing this on a Samsung S22 Ultra took me from tons of spam calls to none.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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I have never had any of the issues described in this article and I've been using AirPods w/ an iPhone and a MacBook since AirPods came out. My issue with phone calls is 1. Robocalls 2. Robocalls 3. Robocalls 4. Robocalls 5. Robocalls I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. It's completely fixable, but American telcos make money off l…

> I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. Not trying to defend US or its telecoms here, but I think it has more to do with scammers trying to maximize for profit. Just like with malware heavily targeting Windows instead of macOS/Linux, or some apps prioritizing iOS instead of Android (by either launching as iOS-only and then introduc…

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Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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Phone calls should have a subject line, just like emails. It’s crazy that anyone can force a full-screen interrupt on my personal device with no context. If call metadata included a subject line, software could automatically screen out calls where the subject is empty or spammy, just like with email. It would be very helpful for missed calls. “Why did my wife call twice in the last 5 minutes, did something happen, sh…

I've changed the settings on my iPhone so that calls are shown like notifications like everything else. So no more taking over the whole screen.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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post #22

Phone calls should have a subject line, just like emails. It’s crazy that anyone can force a full-screen interrupt on my personal device with no context. If call metadata included a subject line, software could automatically screen out calls where the subject is empty or spammy, just like with email. It would be very helpful for missed calls. “Why did my wife call twice in the last 5 minutes, did something happen, sh…

Phone calls from unknown numbers go straight to voice mail. Same for some people who think it’s fair game to call me and bore my ears off with their life whilst I am working. Problem solved.

This is a solution very dependent on individual preferences, though, it is not any kind of blanket solution.

I once called my brother from a phone that was not mine, in the middle of the night, to inform him that our brother had died suddenly. He did not answer. He got that message in the morning when he checked his voicemail after waking up. He was very upset at the delay.

Filtering from unknown numbers is a hack, and it has consequences. We should not have to do it just to get some peace from our phones.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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I have never had any of the issues described in this article and I've been using AirPods w/ an iPhone and a MacBook since AirPods came out. My issue with phone calls is 1. Robocalls 2. Robocalls 3. Robocalls 4. Robocalls 5. Robocalls I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. It's completely fixable, but American telcos make money off l…

I get the same issues I did in the US here in Iceland, fwiw. I get the added bonus of no longer being able to use many voice activated features because names aren't phonetically pronounced or simply have characters that aren't recognized by CarPlay.

"Call Þórunn mobile." "I don't have a Thorin." "Call Porun mobile" "I don't have a porun".

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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The first minute of every article like this one is also torture. First it seems like the page loaded and you can start reading, but then you are going to be hit with a massive, all encompassing pop up covering the page. If you're lucky, it's a cookie consent modal, to which you basically have to consent; the other case is a paywall and the content might never have been there to begin with.

You can brave the elements (the DOM elements) or zap away annoying modals, and if it's a paywall you might find an archived linked in the comments (thanks to anyone sharing these by the way) but either way you are in for a jolted start. If you are really in a hurry you might just bite the bullet and accept all cookies, muttering quotes from 1984 in the process.

Then there are the autoplay videos, good luck finding the X button on those, and have fun actually clicking one.

It's been an annoying first minute but you can finally start reading, only that every paragraph break is now an ad to something else, a focus grabbing div to additional content on the site, or - my favorite - another autoplay video completely unrelated to anything. Aside from videos, most of these are still present even in reader mode, for the clever reader.

Ad blockers help with some of these issues, but media articles today are just a total crapshoot, unless it's a personal blog, although those might turn out to be a marketing funnel for something, and oh why don't you sign up to our newsletter for the actual content we baited you into clicking, which in turn is an ad for the class they are promoting.

I envy the younger people online who never knew the internet before it became this weird annoying minefield of attention traps and poorly disguised marketing ploys.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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I have never had any of the issues described in this article and I've been using AirPods w/ an iPhone and a MacBook since AirPods came out. My issue with phone calls is 1. Robocalls 2. Robocalls 3. Robocalls 4. Robocalls 5. Robocalls I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. It's completely fixable, but American telcos make money off l…

> American telcos make money off letting scammers operating boiler rooms in India steal money from your grandparents, so they're happy to utterly destroy any utility that a phone has. Not sure how telcos profit off scammers. Especially since I would imagine many times their payments are fraudulent. If anything these scammers waste the telco’s time too. This problem clearly isn’t getting fixed but I feel like saying “…

The telco of the user who places the call pays the telco of the user who answers the call. Every scam call that’s actually answered is money in the pocket of the telco that serves the scam victim.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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post #246

I have never had any of the issues described in this article and I've been using AirPods w/ an iPhone and a MacBook since AirPods came out. My issue with phone calls is 1. Robocalls 2. Robocalls 3. Robocalls 4. Robocalls 5. Robocalls I've been all over the world, and it is straight up fucked how bad this issue is in the US and it's not like this elsewhere. It's completely fixable, but American telcos make money off l…

I get the same issues I did in the US here in Iceland, fwiw. I get the added bonus of no longer being able to use many voice activated features because names aren't phonetically pronounced or simply have characters that aren't recognized by CarPlay. "Call Þórunn mobile." "I don't have a Thorin." "Call Porun mobile" "I don't have a porun".

You can give contacts nicknames and Siri will recognise that instead of their main name.

So if you set Þórunn's nickname to be "thorin" Siri will be able to recognise it. Basically just go through your contacts and give them all nicknames that are English phonetic spellings of their real name.

Re: The first minute of every phone call is torture now

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Honestly I'm fine with this as a consequence of modern convenience. The real torture for me in that first minute of a phone call is the usual:

"Hi, how are you?"

Then I have to pretend they care (they usually don't), give them a 0.02 second explanation of how I am, then to be nice I have to return the same useless question before we can actually talk about their reason for calling.

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