> You cannot just add "public transport" to most of our existing cities to replace peoples' cars. The reason is that everything is too spread out, mostly due to the large parking lots everywhere. That may be sub-optimal in a certain sense, but it's the reality and you can't just snap your fingers and change it.
Its not about 'snapping your finger'. Neither Netherlands or Switzerland built their systems from 1 day to the other.
You need to make decision to change and then consistently and incrementally work on it. Put it in your standards and invest ever $ you have for new roads to that instead.
You need to change your tax policy so that horrible inefficient land uses like parking lots cost a lot more. You need to enable mixed use development so these parking lots can be built on.
> To do public transport right, you'd have to basically demolish the entire city and re-build everything from scratch to be friendly to pedestrians.
I'm sorry that is complete and utter nonsense. Like seriously, completely insane.
If you look into some urbanist and city planning literature you will see that lots of places where there used to be total car shitshows, are now beautiful. Often you would never have guessed that just 10-20 years earlier it was horrible road and a parking lot.
Again, small and incremental steps. Here are some really basic steps you can take:
- Remove parking requirements
- Slow speed of cars
- Don't allow turn right on red
- Make the lanes thinner
- Make the sidewalk broader, maybe add some trees
- Take one of the existing lanes and add painted bike lanes, later add protection for those lanes
- Rezone for mixed use (specially existing commercial zones)
- Change property tax policy to discourage sub-optimal land use
I could literally keep going on and on. Non of this, requires you to demolish anything.
Specifically for the US, there is whole movement about incrementally improving your city, see Strong Towns (https://www.strongtowns.org/). They have lots of podcasts and books. Specially: 'Strong Towns: A Bottom-Up Revolution to Rebuild American Prosperity'.
They also point out in detail with real data how these changes make your city safer and economically much better (They have some seriously amazing visualization of city finances that shows how such chances can improve cities).
And this is not some hippy organization, these are coming from a somewhat conservative small towns perspective.
Honestly your attitude of 'we are stuck with this' is horrible. I can understand frustration and bleak outlook, about the situation. But put your hope into incremental low cost change, not some techno futurism and you will be less disappointed.