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The dude just told us he’s lost his dad, and your second paragraph was “let’s not exaggerate”. Your original comment - sharing your own anecdote - would’ve been better without the second paragraph.
Yes. The fact that someone's father died is tragic. It still doesn't give them carte blanche to exaggerate or emphasize scary anecdotes at the expense of boring ones.
If your anecdote is "boring" or a more normal representation, why share?
It seems like you want to fight to downplay the effects of covid, which is fine, but your approach is totally off.