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Ask HN: Are we all burned out?

#1
I feel burned out and every one of my friends and coworkers I have talked to are feeling burned out.

Having a kid, covid , war in Ukraine and now recession and layoffs have left me fatigued and I can barely learn anything new or look forward to anything .

All I want to do is look at my phone and consume more content.And I look back fondly to 2001-2007 and also 2010-2017. Do I need therapy or is everyone feeling the same ?

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#2
You are not alone my friend.

The best I can recommend you would be to start dealing with handcrafting chores.

Try to avoid social media and news, reduce your internet usage in general and pay close attention to little things that you let go unnoticed in the past.

You know, things like how wind blows through trees and leaves, observe the sky, the birds, anything that can let your mind go free without thinking pretty much anything negative.

I have been doing this for a while now and have noticed tremendous difference; it could work with you too, why not?

Just hold on tight, you are not alone in this mess.

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#3
No, I don’t want to sound cold but I’m sorry to say… this is called “life.”

Our parents had tough times, and their parents had tough times, and so on throughout history.

People have dealt with famines, wars, oppression, economic struggles, disease and death for thousands of years.

I’m not suggesting the feelings of burnout aren’t real. I’m just saying that every generation experiences some level of hardship and it’s OK.

That’s not burnout. It’s just life.

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#5
I absolutely agree with you. it's hard to deal with bad thoughts now days.

every time I find myself in such a situation, I find the best way out in training and sports. physical activity best heals the mind. running, push-ups, swimming

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#6
Get off your phone. Get off the news. They're doing nothing for you. Jump in some cold water. Feel reality for what it is. Don't use any products that simulate dopamine (phone, tv, video games, junk food), they're killing you from the inside.

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#8

No, I don’t want to sound cold but I’m sorry to say… this is called “life.” Our parents had tough times, and their parents had tough times, and so on throughout history. People have dealt with famines, wars, oppression, economic struggles, disease and death for thousands of years. I’m not suggesting the feelings of burnout aren’t real. I’m just saying that every generation experiences some level of hardship and it’s…

> Our parents had tough times, and their parents had tough times, and so on throughout history.

US baby boomers had the best luck to be born in a time of massive prosperity, and opportunities have been steadily declining since then. My father didn't go to college and worked construction. He didn't own the company, just manual labor. He could pay the mortgage on a nice house in the suburbs and support a family on one working class salary.

Today, if they sold their house at current market value, I could not afford to buy it with the tech worker salary I make.

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#9
Similar feeling here, minus the kid(s). Thing is I’m actually spending more time in front of my computer compared to pre-covid, but it feels like I’m doing 10 times fewer things. Walking my dog helps with “less time in front of the computer”, not so much with “doing things” stuff.
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