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Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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firstly, stop drinking sweetened drinks. drink only pure alcohol. secondly, drink good alcohol. like extra old rum(generic term for well aged rums) or 12y+ scotch. thirdly, drink high ABV, non-chill filtered or as natural alcohol as you can get. you will not be able to drink more than one, maybe two, glasses of a juice like that. it will fill up your desires. you'll have enough with one glass. fourth, don't drink soc…

This is terrible advice.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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Find the right intent that you can always mentally justify. Sounds like you are on the right route though!

Personally all the stuff about how it feels is useful but ultimately never stopped me. What stopped me was the awareness of how it effects EVERYTHING and most importantly my role as a father and husband. Once I worked it out (aka a terrible hangover and not having dealt well with kids, wife and taking some time out just before xmas) I realized it was the way. Once you remove the excuse of alcohol then you can see the other problems more clearly.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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I've cut back by switching to non-alcohol beer. I've found that I enjoy the taste of beer, but I don't enjoy how shitty alcohol makes me feel. NA beer tends to solve that for me. Lots of good options coming out. * Just the Hazy by Sam Adams is top tier. * Athletic brewing is solely NA beer - lots of different varieties. * Heineken 0.0 is great * O'Douls amber is surprisingly passable as well I suspect the options wil…

Its a bit absurd that heineken sells their 0.0 beer for just as much as their regular beer. Also, you seem to have quite the selection of na beers near you :)

Ironically enough, Total Wine has amazing selection of NA beers. (If you are lucky enough to live close to one of the stores)

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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I've found it easy to stop a great deal of such behaviors by examining not what they promise to deliver, but what they actually brought. I.e. don't look forward, look backward when making decisions. Alcohol promises a great time. Alcohol delivers a hangover and regrets. Junk food promises a great time. Junk food delivers poor health and regrets. Going to the gym promises hardship and struggle. It delivers health. I'v…

That's a great perspective. Thanks for giving me something to think about.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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I quit drinking a year ago because I was experiencing severe anxiety and depression and that was a part of my regiment to help myself out of the hole. I think what helps is having a goal other than just quitting. For me, that was trying to feel good again. I had some alcohol a few days ago for the first time in a year and noticed anxiety a few hours later, so now I have no desire to return to drinking.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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What worked for me was Allen Carr's book Easy Way to Control Alcohol https://amzn.eu/d/89NkrKR I tried several times to stop drinking previously, the longest I managed was for about 3 months. I think the hardest part is really deciding that you want to stop drinking. Once I did that, I read the book and it was easy. I haven't had a drink in about 6 years since. What I like about this book is it doesn't make it into s…

I used Allen Carr's book to stop smoking and it worked like a charm. Reading the book made me happy to quit, instead of the expected struggle that everyone that quits smoking goes through. Now I've spent 500 days without smoking and I've never felt the need to smoke again. I haven't read the Easy Way to Control Alcohol, but if it's as good as Easy Way to Stop Smoking I would recommend it.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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I've found it easy to stop a great deal of such behaviors by examining not what they promise to deliver, but what they actually brought. I.e. don't look forward, look backward when making decisions. Alcohol promises a great time. Alcohol delivers a hangover and regrets. Junk food promises a great time. Junk food delivers poor health and regrets. Going to the gym promises hardship and struggle. It delivers health. I'v…

Good advice, because that's what I did recently, for alcohol at least. I'm not sure if it is a result of getting older, change in diet and it doesn't really matter. I like a good wine, beer, whiskey or rum, but in the last six months I started notice that I don't sleep very well after drinking. I can have one or two beer or one glass of wine, but not much more. After that it starts to interfer with my sleep, costing…

Not a product endorsement (as I'm sure other products would do much the same thing), but after getting an Oura ring and seeing the near realtime impacts on my sleep and readiness after drinking alcohol I found that my alcohol consumption massively decreased.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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I've cut back by switching to non-alcohol beer. I've found that I enjoy the taste of beer, but I don't enjoy how shitty alcohol makes me feel. NA beer tends to solve that for me. Lots of good options coming out. * Just the Hazy by Sam Adams is top tier. * Athletic brewing is solely NA beer - lots of different varieties. * Heineken 0.0 is great * O'Douls amber is surprisingly passable as well I suspect the options wil…

Yes, this! The non-alcoholic beers have gotten so much better over the last couple of years. I remember that they smelled quite pungent, but this is no longer the case.

I mostly enjoy IPA non-alcoholics, or a Weizen. But for regular NA pilsener I would recommend Grolsch, it's a bit more hoppy then Heineken.

Re: Ask HN: How did you stop drinking?

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Having kids for the most part has sucked the joy out of getting drunk. Don't get me wrong, I still enjoy having 2 or 3 pints with a meal as long as its providing a lubricant to socialisation. Time constraints mean it's something I only get to do once every couple of months though.

Beyond that though means feeling like shit the next day and not being able to give the kids the attention they deserve.

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