> It seems like urban people just don't grok how anything works outside the city.
Earnest question: is it possible that the people asking were genuinely curious?
And a follow-up: why should they grok your lifestyle?
People have a thousand different things they need to deal with on a weekly basis. Having a full understanding of how someone who lives a hundred miles away probably isn't high on the list.
Every time I've traveled and it's come up that I'm from Seattle people tend to ask me the same things: where is Frasier's apartment, how many Starbucks are there really, and do we all throw fish or is it just for special occasions. A coworker from Texas gets asked if they own a horse.
I guess my underlying question is how is this anecdote relevant? Maybe I am misreading but it feels, to me, like you're just having a go at "those silly urbanites", which, if I'm right, seems unfair. Do you know how to get from Queen Anne to Columbia City on King County Metro?