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Why adults still dream about school

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Re: Why adults still dream about school

#11

Because modern American public schools are basically prisons and traumatized kids.

Oh, yeah because students from other countries don’t have them at all…. Anxiety is just an American thing, /s

I went to an American high school and a former commie one (Albania), and I can tell you the American HS was a walk in the park in comparison to the one back home.

My take is that this is a pretty universal occurrence.

Re: Why adults still dream about school

#12

Because modern American public schools are basically prisons and traumatized kids.

Modern American and public do no useful conceptual work in that sentence. It’s exactly as true without them.

On the other hand, many children are born into circumstances so bad school is a welcome relief. Warmth, regular food, some intellectual stimulation, people who don’t hit them, ever. It’s not what you’d want for your child but it beats what lots of children get at home.

Re: Why adults still dream about school

#13
I've been told that people who actually do fail out of school tend to not have these kinds of dreams, or at least at a reduced rate. I've asked some aquaintences over the years and their experiences didn't contradict that assertion.

Could be an interesting research topic.

Re: Why adults still dream about school

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post #4

Because modern American public schools are basically prisons and traumatized kids.

Yep. PTSD. Future generations will look back in horror, if we're lucky.

6.7% of US kids are home schooled now, and it increased 10% year over year from 2016-2021.

One can hope.

We’re homeschooling which paradoxically ends up with our kids thinking school is some magical place where everything is great and you get to hang out with friends all day.

Re: Why adults still dream about school

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Because modern American public schools are basically prisons and traumatized kids.

I'm not American and didn't go to American public school but still had the same kind of dreams way out of school. And article author mentions his is about college. So yeah sorry this doesn't fit your narrative.

Re: Why adults still dream about school

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post #9

Is this another American thing? I don't know anyone who ever dreams about school (non-US obviously)

Do you have any Chinese (i.e. went through mainland china middle school entrance exams / high school entrance exams / college entrance exams) friends who will share their dreams with you?

Re: Why adults still dream about school

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post #7

This is quite real. I did EECS at Berkeley Engineering and I still have nightmares about not finishing something and this is close to 20 years later. I’m going to a BBQ next week with some of my classmates and I’m going going to ask them. A buddy went to West Point and he had similar nightmares. My guess is that it’s more prevalent in the very demanding and competitive STEM majors and probably architecture. I remembe…

Funny, I did EECS at Berkeley nearly a decade ago and also still have the occasional nightmare about forgetting to finish something, but remembering at the last minute. Something something about evolution rewarding anxiety and neuroticism.
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