I generally empathize and see what a lot of authors are saying when they have these commentaries. But I just cannot get past the reality that for all its issues and things worth complaining about, React has never really been "in my way" when it comes to the only goal I really care about: shipping a maintainable product on-time.
I think that comparing a 10 year old library to much younger libraries can be useful in some cases, but is still apples to oranges, given that younger library still has to survive growing up and not having the same claimed fate.