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I'm actually fine with this, it easily lets me avoid irritating snobs that I was never going to be friends with anyway. :-) Although I admit that I've excluded people from group chats because they don't use Signal messenger, although not because of any snobbiness, but because of the lack of feature support, and because I HATE the way iPhones do " reacted to " type crap. Almost like we'd all be better off with a nice…
Its like being black in Oregon (who were excluded via the state constitution for 100 years, if you don't get the analogy), not everyone is going to be a prick about it, few to your face, but everyone noticed and many/most are going to disassociate
saying “well I don't want to be friends with them anyway” isnt a smug consolation you when its the whole society you need to interface with
your response is quite common, at least here, but to me it reads like its grasping for all you have to grasp for. highlighting the pervasiveness of this social issue.