> Being kind is fine and all,Being kind is not always necessary, but being respectful goes a long way.
People (especially the type who participate in this forum) frequently equate kindness with weakness. I really get sick of that attitude. It's not an "either/or" thing. It's entirely possible to be kind, and also to have strong boundaries, and real mettle.
Respect is something that is usually (not always) appreciated; even by our enemies.
Cops are often quite respectful to you, as they slap on the bracelets.
> but my one gripe with it is that it doesn’t make me any money.
I wouldn't be so sure about that. These are exactly the types of things that are almost impossible to measure, except in a rather vague way (i.e. "Six months after we started our personalized letter campaign, our sales increased by 30%").