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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

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Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#41

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

The 7th day.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#42
I really dislike this type of thinking insisting that everything we do has some importance to it. I used to think like this in moral terms, my every action has consequences and I should be mindful of those consequences. And if anyone watched "The Good Place" then they know it is not a good way to live. I am paraphrasing but microoptimalisation is the root of all evil. I find it much better to just get a good understanding of what I wish to be and set a long time goals around it (Like a decade or lifetime long). Then every now and then I can asses if it is working or not. Since life is not a race and I am not competing with anyone I can settle for slow progression towards the good. I am the judge, the executioner and the audience of my life and therefore every aspect can be adjusted independently.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#44
Ok, so let's see here.

1. Got a meaningless certificate. Also expanded his "wildly successful business leaders" network.

2. Added people to a project in order to get it completed faster. (The ghost of Fred Brooks is making it hard to type here now.)

3. Proposed re-orging Red Hat engineering.

4. Had a meeting.

5. Wrote strategy doccies.

6. Mentoring. (1 out of 7 isn't bad.)

7. Had a meeting about advertising copy.

I'm afraid I absolutely, positively, do not wish to become whatever sort of person this is, thank you very much.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#45

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

By posting this, you are becoming a person that enjoys life and is unlikely to get burnt out.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#46

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

That's exactly what the title means, no? If you constantly just work, you don't become the person you want to be. You don't become the person who enjoys life. If you are in the spot that you're not spending time as the person you are, then you'll probably want to change, and framing every action as a vote is a pretty good way to think about it.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#47

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

> Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are.

This is patently false. If you start smoking cigarettes occasionally and start doing it more, you are becoming more of a smoker. The actions you take or don't take are the clearest input to the person you become. It's true that this is also the person you are, but that distinction seems meaningless if you're trying to become someone better (whatever better means to you).

On a more general note (and this is what you are saying), you can both prioritize the things you need to do to progress and the time you need for enjoying yourself and your current life. These things are only mutually exclusive if you're pushing past your personal limits and there's a lot of inputs to that equation and whether that's worth it to each individual.

So my next question is: why such a strong aversion to people improving themselves? There is no problem with being competitive. However competitive you want to be, be. Do it for yourself. Don't know the author of the post, but people who are hyper competitive usually aren't telling others to also be hyper competitive (unless it's a Gary V or someone similar). From my experience, they're usually just doing their own thing.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#48

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

I was thinking something very similar the other day when someone came to me extolling stoicism as a route to personal improvement. People need to read a bit of Epicurus or something to level out. Sure grind when it's time to grind, but make sure you set aside time to make friends and enjoy your life. In the end, whether you enjoy yourself or spend your life grinding away, this one life is all we get. No amount of grinding will allow you to vote for a second life after this one.

Re: Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become

#49

Oh man this is such a perfect example of productivity porn. Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. I hate this mindset of “I am constantly working towards becoming someone else”. When do we spend time as the person we are? When do we enjoy the fruits of our labor? I feel like some people who take this mindset see their lives as being two…

> Every action you take isn’t a vote for the type of person you wish to become, it is a vote taken by the person you are. This is patently false. If you start smoking cigarettes occasionally and start doing it more, you are becoming more of a smoker. The actions you take or don't take are the clearest input to the person you become. It's true that this is also the person you are, but that distinction seems meaningles…

> why such a strong aversion to people improving themselves

crab bucket mentality

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