I am using freebsd since version 8 for all my server needs (was using linux, but got repelled by its chaos which I dont care about on my laptop, but it pisses me off on server). Some more points: - bhyve, developed by netapp, they ditched all old technologies support and it works faster on my i5 server than kvm on my i7 laptop. Snapshoting using ZFS is not a feature to discard either. - FIBs, absolute miracle routing…
I use Linux all day long and none of this is an issue for me, so I guess that's the counterpoint. I'm just a desktop/server user/developer though and not a guru by any stretch.
Docker, kubernetes et all was the nail in the coffin.
BSDs are amazing for universities, OS classes and some outliers in the industry here and there.
The one thing FreeBSD had was network stack performance. Linux supports higher throughput for a while now.. so even that ship sailed.