People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes
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#12If I’m happy, decision made. But if there’s a pang of regret or whatever… that means you actually prefer the alternate so should do that.
Admittedly I’m talking about stuff on the level of “What should I do for lunch” and not, say, career decisions
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#13The blog post could be better written though - it's super choppy.
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#141. That the decision-making activity itself is wasteful. 2. That the decision-making time would, if not consumed by decision making, be spent elsewhere in a more productive manner.
These are hardly safe assumptions. The discussion itself can be enjoyable. The faster decision making can create less certainty in the decision and encourage regret, or create conflict with others. The time gained may not be spent in any productive manner but instead be wasted elsewhere.
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#15I notice this all the time and its very frustrating to me. People fret a great deal over choices where there's many good options. Life is much better if you can recognize these situations and just pick one at random.
You could try to pick the best option quickly based on immediately available/easily discernible information with the acknowledgement that you could be wrong, but it likely won't matter if you are.
While most of the examples in the article fall under "don't waste time on decisions that don't matter", one of them certainly does not: which university to attend. That is where you will live and work for the next 4-5 years. Given two equal status choices I would put a lot of research into the decision. Mainly to try to uncover anything I would strongly dislike - and have to live with - about either choice.
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#16“You didn’t even look at the back of the menu!!”
“Good point. I’ll start reading menus from random locations each time.”
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#17I would consider myself "filthy rich" when food just appeared for me.
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#20You think guys like Bill Gates think about what they are having for dinner? They don't debate it with their wives. Food just appears. The cook knows what they like and they probably stick to that. I would consider myself "filthy rich" when food just appeared for me.