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People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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My technique for simple close decisions is to pick an option at random - flip a coin, random.org, whatever, and then see what my gut reaction is.

If I’m happy, decision made. But if there’s a pang of regret or whatever… that means you actually prefer the alternate so should do that.

Admittedly I’m talking about stuff on the level of “What should I do for lunch” and not, say, career decisions

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

#14
The irrationality presumes:

1. That the decision-making activity itself is wasteful. 2. That the decision-making time would, if not consumed by decision making, be spent elsewhere in a more productive manner.

These are hardly safe assumptions. The discussion itself can be enjoyable. The faster decision making can create less certainty in the decision and encourage regret, or create conflict with others. The time gained may not be spent in any productive manner but instead be wasted elsewhere.

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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I notice this all the time and its very frustrating to me. People fret a great deal over choices where there's many good options. Life is much better if you can recognize these situations and just pick one at random.

I don't think the pick needs to be deliberately random (forsaking any responsibility for the outcome).

You could try to pick the best option quickly based on immediately available/easily discernible information with the acknowledgement that you could be wrong, but it likely won't matter if you are.

While most of the examples in the article fall under "don't waste time on decisions that don't matter", one of them certainly does not: which university to attend. That is where you will live and work for the next 4-5 years. Given two equal status choices I would put a lot of research into the decision. Mainly to try to uncover anything I would strongly dislike - and have to live with - about either choice.

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

#16
My “anti shampoo aisle” strategy (that drives my wife mad) is to stop at the first item that satisfies my requirements.

“You didn’t even look at the back of the menu!!”

“Good point. I’ll start reading menus from random locations each time.”

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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You think guys like Bill Gates think about what they are having for dinner? They don't debate it with their wives. Food just appears. The cook knows what they like and they probably stick to that.

I would consider myself "filthy rich" when food just appeared for me.

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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Which is why I enjoy buying things at Costco. They usually have one widget of a particular type. And historically for me at least, they seem to be proficient at choosing good widgets. Thus, my only choice is whether I want it or not, not then another choice of which one do I want.

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

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I like to flip a coin when the decision is difficult. If the answer is satisfying, then either I had an unarticulated preference or it didn’t matter. If the answer is unsatisfying, then I had an unarticulated preference and I can just choose the (apparently preferable) alternative.

Re: People spend too much time on decisions with equally satisfying outcomes

#20

You think guys like Bill Gates think about what they are having for dinner? They don't debate it with their wives. Food just appears. The cook knows what they like and they probably stick to that. I would consider myself "filthy rich" when food just appeared for me.

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