So we disagree on the best tactics to take here. In particular, I think the embarrassing tech companies in public works when it's done by either other tech people OR it gets into the media where the bottom line could be impacted. This
That doesn't make me 'cringe^inf' or boil down my tactical critiques to '"she's not asking nicely enough'. I presumed you were attempting to call me out for tone policing, and usually the point of that call out is to protect the feelings of the person being critiqued. Or to prevent the person making the tone argument from making it for biased reasons, but as I am ALSO a female librarian, that doesn't really apply here.
> you seem to have an odd perspective on all of this.
Yes, I imagine I would. I differ from both HN's average readership and the average librarian enough that my views on things are odd. I also did some time in communications work and I can't turn that off either. It's like seeing poorly written code for me.