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Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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4 August 2019. India government fucked me and my land of 8 million, banned internet for 8 months and started persecuting anyone "misusing social media " which is doublespeak for criticizing the government. I haven't logged in to my Facebook since because I will write some nasty stuff and I do not want Facebook to rat me out. I do it on reddit or hn

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

#23
Partially. Deactivated account 9 months ago.

One guy I met on the train told me he was a fan (I have fans?!) and asked why I didn't post on FB anymore. I kept IG alive and noticed a lot of people I used to talk to but never did anymore.

So I reactivated FB. Comments on everything on FB is still fucking toxic, probably worse than say, 4chan. I love reading comments (hence HN) but opening comments on FB is a very bad idea. A lot of people are also toxic; sole purpose is to sell something (often a political opinion or "personal branding"). So they're generally not interested in you or the conversation, only interested in looking good.

My wife told me to keep the FB active, just unfriend everyone except her. Not a terrible idea.

Trying to unfriend about 90% of friends now, down to Dunbar's number. And remove most followed pages. It becomes clearer who matters and which pages/groups matter.

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

#24
I didn't delete FB and never had an IG. But I don't use FB any longer. I miss it not at all. I jump back on if I'm looking for someone, but that's it. I can still use FB once in a blue moon to find someone, but often enough I can reach them on LinkedIn as well. The whole platform seems to be a mass of people trying to attract attention / likes, spam, and a pit of political stupidity.

I can find enough stupidity at the local pub, thank you very much!

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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4 August 2019. India government fucked me and my land of 8 million, banned internet for 8 months and started persecuting anyone "misusing social media " which is doublespeak for criticizing the government. I haven't logged in to my Facebook since because I will write some nasty stuff and I do not want Facebook to rat me out. I do it on reddit or hn

Jesus christ man, I can't imagine how fucked that situation must be. Understandable why so many people there want to abolish the state.

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

#26
If you want to cut down, consider occasionally pruning your FB friend list and feed. I kept their email address or phone number where possible.

After a few years, I'm left with just my elderly relatives on Facebook Portal (a great device that they can use) and ~5 friends that I actually care about but can't persuade to use Signal.

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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A bit of a deviation from the original question but I regret hard deleting my MySpace profile only because of all the pictures lost and it’d be a cool time capsule. Because of that I maintain fb/ig but haven’t signed onto either in years - it’d be nice to delete them though

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

#28
I haven't had a FB account for over a decade and am loving it. I don't have any social presence online, except I do have a Twitter account that is used twice a year.

If this is what you want to do, truly, being honest with yourself; remember you'll need to fill the hole with something, so it's a change that comes from within.

Don't just delete it and change nothing else in your life. There are long learned habits you'll need to break. Time will need to be filled. It's like quitting cigarettes. Hard if you sit there and think about how agonizing it is, or if you're out using your lungs, finding other ways to deliver pleasure to your brain, you don't think about it (as much). Watch people around you. Do you want to become like that? Kinked neck, staring at your phone in every social setting, making sure you've got the most perfect picture to share.. stop retaking photos and just enjoy the damn view..

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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A bit of a deviation from the original question but I regret hard deleting my MySpace profile only because of all the pictures lost and it’d be a cool time capsule. Because of that I maintain fb/ig but haven’t signed onto either in years - it’d be nice to delete them though

Jdownloader2 or some similar app, there's got to be a way to establish a local copy easier. I also use linkclump (extension) for copying URLs en-masse from the web. JD2 will scrape page for content.

Re: Do you regret deleting FB or IG or any social media?

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post #15

I removed FB after the Cambridge Analytica scandal broke out. I still had WhatsApp messenger for a few years since I have a very active high school friends group on it. When WhatsApp started changing their privacy policies I just removed WhatsApp as well. We also have a Signal group. My friends and colleagues know how to reach me for anything important, so I don't think I have missed out on anything. Google is the ne…

Switching from Chrome to Brave was one of the easiest things I've done.
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