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I lived for 20 years there. In my opinion the root of all problems there is that it is embedded in the culture to be as egoist as possible and to steal as much as you can from everyone else in the most ruthless and shameless possible way. People usually complain about the government being corrupt and stealing to the people. But most people are the same, at their own level. They will try to steal as much as they can a…
My wife and I vacationed in Buenos Aires a few years ago because we read it was the Paris of the south. We enjoyed our trip, but what we found was far from Paris! We rented a nice apartment from an expat from Michigan who married a Argentinian. In an email he practically begged us to bring $100 bills, which he would exchange for pesos at a much better rate then was available from local banks, which he thankfully did.…
When people describe Buenos Aires as "the Paris of the south", this is what they mean:
That we have a great deal of Parisian looking architecture, especially in our "historic" sections of the city, such as microcentro.
That we have a greater deal of European influence than our Latin American neighbors. (There's also a racist implication that we are "whitest". Argentinians care a lot about skin colors, and for us, calling someone a "negro" is a common insult. There's a confusing exception here -- "negrito", "negri" or "negro" is an endearing term you can call a friend, but it's always insulting if you refer to poor people, "esos negros", "qué negros", etc).
Historically, the upper classes of Buenos Aires looked up to Paris. This has been replaced for admiration of the US, a long time ago, and is no longer relevant.
As for scheming locals and dubious tours: I find these to be the norm in many European cities as well. I was marked for tricking/mugging in Paris, Barcelona and Rome, so... another European influence I guess?
Dirt and poorly maintained infrastructure: sadly, you're right. We porteños -- the people from Buenos Aires -- are a very dirty people and we like throwing garbage on the streets, breaking public stuff, urinating in whatever place, etc.