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The missing component is luck I feel, you and I both have probably put the same smarts and effort in as those who were succesful but just haven't had opportunity, effort and luck all line up at the right time. I built four SaaS products while working full time as a software dev, I have started companies, tried some side hussles, I am a smart chap but I was never blessed with opportunity and luck at the time I was put…
I am in the same boat as you. I realized I have all the technical chops needed to build my business, but have failed a few times now. I am now looking for a job. Who knows if the opportunity will ever arise, but I need to move on with my life. I can't be sitting waiting for an opportunity that might never come. It's been emotionally difficult for me to acknowledge this, but I take it one day at a time.
I don't know much about business, but I think you need business chops to build a business.