I've been a software dev since the 90s and at this point, I've learned to basically do things like audit trails and soft deletion by default, unless there's some reason not to. Somebody always wants to undelete something, or examine it to see why it was deleted, or see who changed something, or blah blah blah. It helps the business, it helps you as developer by giving you debug information as well as helping you to c…
Also if people know that deletion is reversible, they're more likely to actually do it, which can keep things generally tidier. I don't actually like using a "deleted" column, my standard table has a status column, and deleted is one of those states, along with active/pending/suspended/etc, as the needs dictate. This way I get soft deletes for basically free both in the schema, but also in the queries (which would ge…
Suppose I soft-delete an active, pending, or suspended user using your scheme.
Now I need to un-delete the user. What status should they have? We don't know.
This is another "best practice" I've learned over the years. Those flags/statuses you think are mutually exclusive? Maybe they aren't. Or maybe they are now but won't always be. It's usually easier in the long run to give each status its own column even if you think they'll always be mutually exclusive. Because I mean, what are you really saving? A few bytes per record? In most cases that's not worth it.