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Maybe the government should have been more in your parents' business. I'm not usually one to think that the government has any place in the family, but 10 children seem like too many for 2 parents to wrangle well. Unless your family has more than two adults, how were you supervised?
I don't know how to tell you this, but other people are different from you. The world is full of people who have families and lives and they are not just shallow copies of you. Just because something isn't to your liking or understanding doesn't mean it's bad or wrong.
With that simple statement she opened up a whole new world to me.